So, day 2 of
my internship! And 3 while I’m at it. I learned how to put on the kids’ leg
braces on Tuesday, which is actually pretty hard. Walking them around is so
much fun though :) I also learned how to change their diapers. I've been
changing diapers since probably about 6th or 7th grade,
but this was a bit different. I guess because of the sheer number of kids, they
use these small rectangular or square blankets, fold the top into a triangle,
lay that over the front, tuck the rest of it behind, bring the corners around,
tie them off well, and tuck the triangle around the knot. No rubber pants or
liner or whatever that’s called though. Whenever the kids go to the bathroom,
it leaks onto their pants. You usually discover that they need to be changed
the hard way—picking them up or feeling a damp spot appear on your lap :P Hence
thank god for quick-dry pants—Mom, I am getting some good use out of these
things. They’re also helpful for when you accidently sit in a puddle of what
I’ll assume was water. The morning routine was pretty much the same as it was
Monday, and I feel like it’s going to be the same way every day. Life at the
orphanage just seems to be a life of maintenance and survival—feed and change
the kids, exercise them (not exorcize, though this is a Catholic place), change
them, tend to them when they cry, play, repeat. I’m sure they sleep somewhere
in there too. It seems like simply keeping these kids alive and well is all the
sisters and workers have time for. At least the workers. I don’t see the
sisters too often. Maybe a couple of times a day. They’re in and out. I’m not
sure what they do, but I’m sure I’ll find out eventually. There just seems like
there’s so much need here—so many kids with disabilities that could probably be
much better off and given better therapy were they adopted, so many babies
screaming and crying (and volunteers aren't allowed to be with the babies
because the babies get so used to being held that when the volunteers go home,
they cry and the nuns are left to handle them on their own), so many kids that
just need someone to hold them…I just wish they could all be adopted. But
apparently the disabled ones aren't likely to be adopted, which is sad. If I
could, there are two that I definitely have my eye on :) But apparently the
Rwandan government (along with many other governments) is making international
adoptions more difficult. To adopt a kid from Rwanda, you have to live in
Rwanda for 3 years with the child.
Anyway, so
the morning was about the same, as was the afternoon—more feeding, playing, and
changing. It didn’t take long for me to feel like I’ve got the hang of things
here. I haven’t entirely figured out how the whole place works, but I know they
have a section for the toddlers, a section for the babies, a section for the
older kids and adults, and a couple of older random able bodied kids running
around—I know they have some that go to school up the road, but I don’t know
the full story behind them. They also have a bunch of guys who chop wood
there—I assume for cooking fuel—which the nuns handed out to people with cards
from the neighborhood on Wednesday. They also have a sewing class/workshop up
near the gate for women from the nearby villages, which I guess is there to
teach them profitable skills. There are so many questions I have about this
place that hopefully either the English speaking volunteers who have been here
for a while or the nuns can answer for me. Eventually. I’m sure I’ll get this
all figured out soon.
Thought they may come in handy :))
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DeleteThis is WONDERFUL!!!! AN AMAZING EXPERIENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 In the end if you can snag a couple photos of them id love to see them...I LOVE AFRICAN KIDS...I secretly want to steal a couple of mine!
ReplyDeleteOh, I've already snagged a few. They'll be up soon :) I do too!! We've decided that african kids are sooo much cuter than white kids :P Oh, I know. I want to steal some of mine as well :)
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