So, I think
I know where I’m interning.
The
Missionaries of Charity, the order founded by Mother Teresa that works with “children,
children with disabilities, and the dying destitutes,” has an orphanage/home
here in Kigali, and it’s an amazing place.
I found the
place by chance online when I was searching for orphanages to intern at (insert
word here so as not to end a sentence with a preposition). I read up on the
volunteer site for the original place in Calcutta (Kolkata? What’s the PC
name?) and on the places in Peru, copied down the contact info for the home,
and before I knew it, my teacher was calling and setting up an appointment for
me to go visit. There’s this huge Catholic Church, Ste. Famille, that sits at
the top of a hill close to downtown. I approached the church trying to find the
orphanage, and despite my broken Kinyarwanda, I was able to find a guy who led
me to the place. We walked down the hill on dirt roads behind the church for a
few minutes until he pointed for me to go further down the hill and turn in at
the gate. I walked/skidded down the steep hill, knocked on the gate, and was
greeted by an older Indian nun. I explained to her who I was, what I was doing
in Rwanda, and why I came to the orphanage. She gave me a tour of the place,
which started by looking through the window at a room full of babies. I was
immediately at home :) The facility/compound itself is average by Rwandan
standards, but pretty bare bones by western standards. It’s the people that
make the place, though, and they were wonderful. We stopped by a room next door
that had about 15 toddlers, half of whom were able-bodied/minded and half of
whom were mentally and/or physically disabled. I got to say hi to and play with
them for a bit, then she took me to see the room where the kids exercise and do
physical therapy 4 times a week. The room had toys, mats, balls, and a small
set of parallel bars, which I assume they use to teach some of the kids how to
walk. Next, we went to go see the classroom. From what I gather, some of the
kids go to the Catholic school up the road, but some of them go to school
there. I dunno, it wasn’t entirely clear. We walked into this small classroom
where about 15 girls were having class. Right as we walked in, they immediately
stood up and greeted me with “good morning!!” though the nun immediately
corrected them and prompted them to say “good afternoon!!!” with equal
enthusiasm. In the characteristic Rwandan child pitch and unison, they asked me
“how are you?” to which I responded, as I’ve learned to do “I’m fine, thank
you. How are you?” They told me they were fine, and then they began to sing “We
are so happy you are here! We are so happy you are here!” in both English and,
I think, French. God they were adorable. I clapped for them, thanked them, and
followed the sister back outside. At this point, we were joined by two kids, a
girl and a boy who were mentally challenged. I greeted them, let them see my
notebook, and then held their hands as we continued down the hill to see the
other residents. We went down the steps into a courtyard where several women
and girls, who were also mentally challenged, were sitting and other people on
the far end of the courtyard were praying. I greeted and introduced myself to
the women and got several hugs from the girls :) After the people on the far
end finished praying, we went over to meet them. Several of them were very
elderly, so I felt honored to get to meet them. It’s not often you see Rwandans
that are so old. We continued on, and the sister showed me the rooms where the
men and women each slept. In each of these rooms, there was a person so
mentally and physically disabled that all they could do was lie in bed. I tried
to greet and introduce myself to each person I met and spend a little extra
time with those who couldn’t necessarily respond to me. After I said goodbye to
everyone, I asked the sister what the residents did all day. She said that
those who were able to worked within the compound peeling vegetables, carrying
water, and other things. On our way out, she took me in to meet the babies, who
were absolutely adorable. I’m sure managing 20 or so babies is a bit difficult,
but it’s definitely a task I’m up for. I asked her what the volunteers do, and
she told me that they pretty much do anything—playing with the kids,
entertaining them, and whatnot. I’m hoping I’ll be able to do as much as
possible there if it works out. Even the nitty gritty like I’ve read on the
blogs of people who’ve volunteered there—being with people as they are dying,
being with them while they’re in pain or sick, washing, cooking, and whatnot.
The volunteers can only be there from 8-10 and 3-5, so I don’t know if that’s enough
time to satisfy SIT, but hopefully we’ll be able to work something out. The
people there are genuinely happy to see you, and the kids are just adorable. I
fully expect it to challenge me in every way, and I can’t wait to see how this
internship will shape me and what it will teach me. I know that sounds like an
ultimately selfish end, and believe me I do want to help and benefit this place
and these people if I can, but from what I understand, people who volunteer
with Missionaries of Charity feel like they’ve received so much more than they’ve
given, so I’m excited to see how this turns out. And I’ll definitely have to
improve my Kinyarwanda a lot :P
Also, just…Mother
Teresa. I remember first learning about her in Reach in elementary school, and
now I get to (at least attempt to) walk in her footsteps. She set this place
up, and I can’t wait to really learn about this organization and these people.
Here’s a
blog (or something) about someone who volunteered there: http://www.siena.edu/uploadedfiles/home/academics/majors_and_programs/amc/student_service_reports/Rwanda%20Wingle.pdf
That aside,
this past week and a half have been pretty ordinary. Classes and two excursions—one
to the free trade zone and one to a landfill/recycling plant of sorts. The free
trade zone sounded pretty interesting, but right now it’s in its infancy. There
was a grain elevator/factory in operation, but that was about the only thing
that had been built there. Everything else was either under construction or
soon to be built. I bet it’ll be great in about 5-10 years. The
landfill/recycling plant (which is honestly neither in the western sense) is
basically a trash collection place where workers sort out organic from inorganic
waste, dry out the organic waste, grind it up, and then pass it through this
machine which heated it and compacted it into logs (aka hippo poop) which were
then sold and used instead of charcoal for cooking in homes, which thus helps
prevent/lessen deforestation. These people are geniuses, man.
And that’s
been my week. We leave for Uganda on Friday, so that’ll be fun. Safaris,
muzungu special treatment, and English, here we come. Speaking of muzungus, the
other SIT kids are here now. They’re adorable. And by adorable, I mean there
terribly American, which isn’t terribly becoming, but they’ll learn. They’re
pretty cool kids, though. Yankees and Californians, albeit, but still cool.
Tura subira
:)
What a great experience that will be! Would love to see pictures of the place and people. Hope you get the internship because I know you will make a difference :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, mom :) I'd love to take pictures, but they have a no pictures policy, so maybe after a few months of being there everyday, they'll soften on that. We'll see :)
DeleteGreat post, Sarah - sounds like you're really in your element. I didn't get the title of this post until I read the PDF from the girl who had been there in 09; it makes sense now, and puts things into perspective.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your adventure.
Thanks :) I definitely am in my element. Can't wait to start working there!
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